gavn1 Posted April 21, 2017 Share Posted April 21, 2017 Hey guys, So i met this girl on tinder 6 months ago. We instantly clicked and got along well. At first she come off as being tomboyish but her personality and vibe attracted me towards her. Few days after the first date, she asked if we could just be friends. At the same time, i also found out she was seeing another girl and she told me, she was bisexual. the following days, weeks and months included us spending time with each other and we started to build a bond. Around this time of building a bond, she told me she was demi sexual and needed to build an emotional connection for any commitment. being around each other and learning about each other led to her being comfortable around me. Closer to the present day, her relationship with the other girl she liked started becoming sour and work was starting to stress her. She started to feel depressed and opted to change careers. Now, she is thinking of moving states to pursue a better career if opportunities come around. I know i have no right to hold her back and is best to encourage her to follow her dreams. Knowing my love for her, its hard to let someone who understands me well and how we are very close together go. I too have been thinking for an year to move to the state she is planning to go but never acted upon. The answer to this situation is obvious, but hearing and experiencing all the drama has put me in a position where answers are hard to see. Any advice, feed back and or options are welcome. Thanks in advance guys. Link to comment
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