Pisces Posted April 21, 2017 Share Posted April 21, 2017 Will leave some details out, and just get rt. to the situation. Met a guy at work, who's been flirting with me for past 5 months. We are in different geographies. We met in person, for the 1st time last yr. And became friend, and I that's when the flirting started from his side. I ignored much of it,as I had heard he has a gf. But the flirting kept on, and we met again past montn in person, when the sparks started flying. I just assumed that he's probably done with his gf. Never talked abt it, until, he made a move towards me. Thats whn he said he's confused regarding her. We went back to our lives, our places.. My problem is that , I have been in several relations, and never felt this connection before. He said the same to me , that he's just drawn towards me. But given the fact that he has gf, I just decided to pull back. I see him doing that too. But he does stalk me on my social media. I guess, it's too early to conclude anything, but I will be open , only if he says he' s decided to break up with his gf. My question to men here: how long do men take to make such decisions? Why is he ok with us not texting each other? Is it cause he needs time n space, or has he decided to forget me? My gut tells me to just give him space, but my hearts killing me with worries. I also understand that any man with respect,would try to sort things out 1st, and only then start talking about "us". He was shocked abt himself too. And said that this is 1st time, he's done this while in a relationship. I believe him. Link to comment
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