absecret Posted April 20, 2017 Share Posted April 20, 2017 I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and for a few months now we barely talk. I try but he is either interested in something else or just plain not interested in what I am talking to him about. If I didn't try to speak to him our days would go like this: he greets me in the morning when he gets home from his graveyard job, I leave for work, I get home he may be sleeping or awake and watching tv or playing video games, if he is awake I greet him and do house work, then we say our goodbyes when I go to sleep and he leaves for work. And if it is a day off he would just watch tv and play video games all day long. I cant even remember the last time we had a real conversation that lasted longer than maybe 5 minutes. I've always known he is very selfish in his ways of thinking and doing, but now it's like he is actually not even in a relationship with me. As if we are just roommates who aren't even friends. I just dont know what to do because he doesnt do serious conversations. So how do I talk to someone who cant take me seriously when I speak and runs the other direction as soon as I bring up something important to our relationship? Link to comment
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