toremyheart17 Posted April 20, 2017 Share Posted April 20, 2017 I just found out my bf of 3 years recently had a visit to prostitute. I had his phone password, I was looking into his text messages and I found his text messages for escort's location, price, and which girls were available and cost... I was crying and stopped talking to him. Then he confessed. It was so devastating. I have always been devoted and committed in this relationship. Throughout the relationship, he was caring, loving, and genuine. We were planning to live together and plan on getting married. Even when I confronted him, he told me he ed up and he actually was planning to buy the ring and thinking about having kids together two days ago. I asked him how many times he went when he was with me, he said two times... He was totally ashamed, said he's an awful person and a sociopath. He was crying on the phone and said he still loves me and would see if I can forgive him and give him a chance. He said I am the nicest girlfriend he have ever had. He promised he would not go again if I give him a chance. But he also said he will understand he deserves it if I want to let it go and move on. I told him I needed time to think. Is it possible to give him a chance? I know most people will tell me stay away from him. But I just can't imagine the life without him. We do share same sense of humor, and view, good sex. I enjoyed spending time with him. We've invested 3 years together and I would really hope he will change to a better person. I just turned 30 years old. I was hoping to marry this guy and have a family together. I am worried of going through dating all over again.... I really regretted that I have discovered this from checking his messages... Link to comment
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