surfdog Posted April 19, 2017 Share Posted April 19, 2017 I’m wondering if anyone else’s SO is attached to their phone all the time. My wife almost always has it near her (90% of the time). She takes it to bed, to the bathroom, on the couch, etc etc. There are sometimes a call will come in and she look but not answer. I feel awkward when this happens (sometime I’ll ask who it is, she’ll tell me it’s her mother and she doesn’t feel like talking to her or a number she does not recognize). Other times a text will come through (buzz sound) and she’ll text back but not say a word about it (not that she has to tell me who she is texting or about what but again it makes me feel awkward). Her phone is always face down (90% again)…almost never screen up. She uses it for an alarm clock so I can see why she has it when she goes to bed. I hear it buzz (text??) early in the morning sometimes about the time we both get up (5am) and its not the alarm clock buzz more like a text message text. Last week her morning alarm went off and she rolled over to shut it off. I happened to look up as she shut it off and I noticed a text message on her screen. I could not read because it was a little far away it but I thought I saw something like……”when is a good time?” or something like that. She seems to text a lot when she gets home from work. OK, I can see that since she has not had a chance to text during the work day and is maybe catching up on texts. This morning as we both left for work she put her phone down hear near and hit the button so her home screen came on. There was some kind of message (I could not see what kind or read it) and she quickly hit the button again to close the screen. It was almost like she did not mean to hit the button in the first place and then quickly shut it off so I could not see. I don’t want to snoop but I’m curious what is on her phone. Her phone is password locked and I think it even has a finger print lock too (I don’t think she uses the finger print lock though). I was cheated on by two different women (they were the last two relationships I had before I met my wife). I don’t think my wife would cheat but my suspicions are up. I’m slightly susceptible to be suspicious though. She has mentioned a guy from the guy a few times. I think he is older, late 50-60s (My wife is going to be 35 next month, I’m 45). His wife recently passed away. My wife offered to take him out on one of her days off. My wife is not very sexual. For the past 6 months we had sex 2-3 times total. I asked her if we could have sex more regularly (1/week would be a big improvement). Before, when I asked she would say she was not in the mood or sick. She would end up using her hand to satisfy me (this was stand procedure for a long time) and has no interest in me pleasing her. Recently she asked me what my favorites sexual positions were (I was surprised she asked me this). I asked why and she said she read it in a Women’s Magazine (oh her phone) and was curious. The past 3 months she has been trying to lose 10lbs (she is by no means over weight but she wants to be 110lbs (she is 120ish right now) and got a trainer guy to give her a meal and exercise plan. I’m not sure if these are coincidences but all these little clues make me wonder if she is cheating on me. Thoughts? Am I Over Analyzing? Thanks. Link to comment
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