20Whattodo17 Posted April 16, 2017 Share Posted April 16, 2017 I have been dating my bf for 2 years and 5 months now...I found out that in the beginning of our relationship he was using dating apps (tinder and other creepy sites) and when i confronted him about it for the first time he lied to me about it however, i kept finding out he has profiles here and there...I actually don't know if he actually ever cheated but it was a breach if trust either way...We sorted that issue out however i still have trouble trusting him cause i don't know if he is still using these sites...I chose to forgive him however and continue the relationship. I am the type of person who doesn't talk about my feelings especially if it really hurts me, i go above and beyond for the ones i care about i feel satisfied when the ones around me are happy but this also means i forget about myself sometimes, we are both students in our mid twenties so we are not loaded with money so i always do little things that are inexpensive but i know would make him feel good, like massaging him every night, when he has to wake up really early (and i don't) i basically am his alarm clock and i still wake up with him and prepare his coffee and send him off his day, i make sure there is a cooked meal every evening, i do most of the cleaning and laundry...When i am doing all these chores he never offers to help he wants me to ask for his help and i really hate that, i want to see his own personal will to do things for me the way i do them for him....We have already spoken about this but nothing ever changed He still has pictures of his ex on his phone too which are backed up on a hard drive so he can't delete them off his phone and we have spoken about this and he knows how i feel about it yet he says there is nothing he can do even though it's as easy as connecting the hardrive to a computer and delete it... I don't want to change my bf or make him do things he doesn't want to do i think i have been too lenient with him so he thinks he can do with me as he pleases...I have come to the point where i feel like my feelings for him are slowly wearing off because of everything that has happened and i think i deserve someone who can care for me as much as i do for them.... Should I leave him or is there any advice someone can give me about my situation? I truly appreciate it xo Link to comment
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