Whats his plan?

[Ulz123]

my boyfriend broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago. We havnt talked in 10 days. We were together for 3 months. Before Our relationship and before our break up, he NEVER used snap chat. He said he just didnt have an interest in posting everything hes doing. Although, lately he has been viewing all of my snapchat stories and usually right after he will post a snapchat story of his own. It just makes no sense? Hes the one that dumped me. It seems as if hes interested in what im doing and wants me to see what hes up to by posting his own snapchat story. If he broke up with me and is done with me then why is he doing this? Wouldnt he have deleted me or something if he REALLY thought it was over?

[Lostinlove31]

Don't read into that. In the beginning normally the dumper is somewhat questioning their decision. They are curious to what you are doing and seeing if you are moving on

[Wiseman2]

What was the reason for the breakup. After dating only 3 mos, some incompatibility can arise or someone may just not be feeling it.

 

Unless he's contacting you it's just social media views. Are you hoping his viewing your snaps means he's missing you?

It seems as if hes interested in what im doing and wants me to see what hes up to by posting his own snapchat story. If he broke up with me and is done with me then why is he doing this? Wouldnt he have deleted me or something if he REALLY thought it was over?

[Ulz123]

We broke up because i felt like he was starting to lack interest so i was on his case about it and he got angry and claimed that it pushed him away. After the break up i asked for one more chance because i realized i might have been smothering him a little because i was used to a different relationship before him. I told him things would be different and that i realized to back off a little. He said that he couldnt guarantee that we are never getting back together and that he couldnt guarantee that we are getting back together. He said to give him his space. I asked if i should move on or is there hope and he said he didnt know and to just leave it at that. So im giving him his space. Its been 10 whole days. In the first few days, he didnt view my snap stories. But now he is. I feel as if maybe he is missing me and is regretting the decision? I havnt contacted him so maybe that is making him miss me. To be honest i hope his views on my snapchat means that. I miss him. What do you think

[Wiseman2]

Stay no contact and don't wait around in limbo looking for vague "signs". He hasn't contacted you. This is a breakup just softened with the 'space' excuse.

 

Try not to be clingy or smothering by asking this over and over 123;6794987]He said that he couldnt guarantee that we are never getting back together and that he couldnt guarantee that we are getting back together. He said to give him his space. I asked if i should move on or is there hope and he said he didnt know and to just leave it at that.

[Ulz123]

So do you think the whole "space" thing is just to be nice. But why does he view what im doing? Dont you think he'd delete me. All of a sudden he posts what hes doing, it makes no sense

[Wiseman2]

Because he's single and putting it out there for other girls.

All of a sudden he posts what hes doing, it makes no sense

[Annia]

I'd also suggest doing a social media break. At least from him. Nothing delays the recovery more than watching an ex on social media. I'd say block and delete, or at least trying to refrain from seeing him on social media and I wouldn't read anything into what he does on social media too.

 

So do you think the whole "space" thing is just to be nice. But why does he view what im doing? Dont you think he'd delete me. All of a sudden he posts what hes doing, it makes no sense

 

If he's not hurt by the break up I don't think it'd be a priority for him to delete you. But I could be wrong, each person acts and works different.

 

And if he lacked interest and wants space do you think that the outcome will be real interest besides perhaps missing you down the road? I'd try to respect his space. If he wants you he knows where to find you.