xoMariah Posted April 12, 2017 Share Posted April 12, 2017 My boyfriend of almost 4 months broke up with me then he said he didn't. He's been toying with my emotions saying he didn't break up and he still loves me.. Recently on Monday he removed me from all social media and one of his friends contacted me saying he was already in a new weeks, for almost 2 weeks. I feel hurt and betrayed because while he was talking to her, he was telling he loves me, etc. Also he told me he couldn't be in another relationship but it's all over his facebook.. You know what the real f**ked up part is, he hasn't text me or call me or even tell me to my face that he's done with. I don't know if he was planning to tell me or wait. I'm confused. Is she like a rebound relationship or? I mean we share a phone plan but he's with her.. How do I get over him? How do I just forget about him? How do I know all of this is real? Link to comment
gebaird Posted April 12, 2017 Share Posted April 12, 2017 he removed me from all social media and one of his friends contacted me saying he was already in a new weeks, for almost 2 weeks. This is a pretty clear sign it's over, even if you didn't get to have a conversation about it. I'd recommend no contact so you can heal. So sorry you were treated this way. You deserve better. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted April 12, 2017 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Are you still talking or hanging out?My boyfriend of almost 4 months broke up with me he removed me from all social media he hasn't text me or call me or even tell me to my face that he's done with. Link to comment
xoMariah Posted April 12, 2017 Author Share Posted April 12, 2017 Are you still talking or hanging out? Not at this moment. I went pay for the cell phone bill Monday and haven't heard from him since. We're still on the same plan... Link to comment
shellyf62 Posted April 12, 2017 Share Posted April 12, 2017 Only together 4 months & you are on the same phone plan? Whose name is it in? Link to comment
xoMariah Posted April 13, 2017 Author Share Posted April 13, 2017 Only together 4 months & you are on the same phone plan? Whose name is it in? It's in his name and the manager said only he can take me off but he's offshore until next month. Link to comment
shellyf62 Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 Thats a good thing then, at least he cant leave you with the bill. Send the phone back to him, get your own phone account with a new number & forget about him. He is treating you like crap. Link to comment
CBC2000 Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 How old are you all? He seems like a coward to me, just go get your own phone plan. I know you are hurting, but it's important for you to start moving now and just cut off all contact with him. It's gonna be hard at first but you will get through this. Link to comment
xoMariah Posted April 13, 2017 Author Share Posted April 13, 2017 How old are you all? He seems like a coward to me, just go get your own phone plan. I know you are hurting, but it's important for you to start moving now and just cut off all contact with him. It's gonna be hard at first but you will get through this. i'm 19, he's 24. he could at least be a man about this. he's going to want to come back to me.. i'm planning on buying me a new phone and own plan but yes i got stuck paying the cell phone bill this month ... Link to comment
CBC2000 Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 i'm 19, he's 24. he could at least be a man about this. he's going to want to come back to me.. You need to understand that he is not man enough to tell you, and that is why you deserve better. He might be back but you shouldn't want someone like that back Link to comment
No1 Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 My boyfriend of almost 4 months broke up with me then he said he didn't. He's been toying with my emotions saying he didn't break up and he still loves me.. Recently on Monday he removed me from all social media and one of his friends contacted me saying he was already in a new weeks, for almost 2 weeks. I feel hurt and betrayed because while he was talking to her, he was telling he loves me, etc. Also he told me he couldn't be in another relationship but it's all over his facebook.. You know what the real f**ked up part is, he hasn't text me or call me or even tell me to my face that he's done with. I don't know if he was planning to tell me or wait. I'm confused. Is she like a rebound relationship or? I mean we share a phone plan but he's with her.. How do I get over him? How do I just forget about him? How do I know all of this is real? You are a hot girl, and when he met you he set out to get you, now that he did, he is out to get another hot girl. He loves the chase and the game. He will say whatever it takes to get you to like him or to love him. He told you everything you wanted to hear then he is gone and he left you confused. Now I cant say he didn't love you, but by his actions it would appear that he didn't. He probably left a trail of girls just like you before he met you. You asked how do you get over him? Simple... He is not the one you are meant to be with, you will meet other guys. How do you forget about him? Oh, don't worry, in time you will think of him less and less. You wont be in your 40s crying over this 4 months fling. How do you know it was real? You don't think about it. You just accept that it was great for 4 months, you had a great time, good memories, but it ended, its over. If you want to look at things in a positive way, you didn't have a child with him or invest too much time with this jerk. I would buy a new phone, take the old phone and do a factory reset so it erases all the data and then you send it back to him or to his parents if you know the address. Or just use the address on the account. Then don't talk to him or follow him on social media or look for him and most importantly, don't seek out information on what he is doing. You wont like what you find. Be strong. Link to comment
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