Deniselove1982 Posted April 11, 2017 Share Posted April 11, 2017 My boyfriend of 9 months left me. I had been hurt before and tried to be cautious. But I really thought he was the one this time. I opened my heart up and put 100% into this. There were a lot of red flags that I was ignoring. He said he loved me very early, I moved in with him the first month, etc... We were very happy at the beginning but started to argue a lot. This last month I could see some changes, but a lot had been going on in his life and he was starting to become depressed. I never realized part of it was me. I came home from work on his birthday and he was gone. He didn't come home until I packed up and left. I did go back 2 days later to make him face me and break it off the right way. To my face. He cried and said he didn't know why I love him, that he didn't want to hurt me or do me wrong. He pointed out all the things that he couldn't handle anymore. He said he would still contact me but needed time. He did that night. But the texts were very misleading. He said for me not to let anyone get in my head, that everything will fall into place, and that he was so sorry and not to give up on him. I said I love you, he said I love you back, and then now he really won't respond to any texts. He will send one late at night saying... please get some rest, I'll call you tomorrow. Then he never calls. Why send hope when it's clear it's over? I know he feels guilty. I know this. But don't continue to say things that he does that would lead me to believe we still have a chance. It's just cruel. Link to comment
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