montanaland Posted April 10, 2017 Share Posted April 10, 2017 Hi all, I was wondering if I could get someones viewpoint of the predicament I'm in at the moment. So long story short...I met my 38gf of 3yrs on Match and moved into her condo 2yrs ago after I quit my oilfield job. The 1st yr. sex was once/twice a week..then I moved in with her. 4 months into our cohabitation I got drunk and yelled at/scolded her for having some flings name all over her living room guest board and lots of ex's on facebook. I view that moment as a turning point. Since then she has made comments about how were prob not getting married..to I should join the peace corps..to go of and do whatever if I please. She is a very independent women who keeps busy with 2 jobs and has traveled to Thailand to visit a friend and plans on more excursions w/out me. She is very family orientated and does not want to leave ND any time soon. I hate ND and repeatably have told her I will not remain in the state for the rest of my life. Anyways, fast forward the sex has gradually declined. She never initiates sex and has a very tough time reaching orgasm. (like twice) I've probably been turned down by her 35+ times for sex in our relationship. We get along great though and she is really a nice person, however we've become sexless companions. She does want to settle down and have a child, but reminds me it will probably never happen.. guilt tripping? I constantly bring up that we don't have sex hardly anymore. She is on birth control..but doesn't like having to take it. My viewpoint> I cannot see myself with a women who wont satisfy me sexually and who wont budge from -30deg winters. I have elderly family in the 2 neighboring western states that I have to keep tabs on. Her whole family (3 brothers/mom-dad) live in this town so she her folks have lots of support. Anyways, I would appreciate any feedback. Thanks, Dave Link to comment
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