SadSadgirl Posted April 7, 2017 Share Posted April 7, 2017 Hi everyone, I'm in a bit of a predicament and I really don't know what to do. Here is some background info -I got out of a short term relationship 2 months ago -I'm still hurt by it but I don't talk to my ex and I don't want him back When my ex broke up with me, he went with someone else 2 weeks later. This destroyed me but I know he's just using her as a rebound since he told me "Shes filling a void in my life" and he didn't think twice about her before she told him that she liked him. They're rushing super super fast, said i love you on the first day and he's saying she's the one, blahblah. Once I found out he was dating her I went NC. Blocked on everything aswell. Here's my problem, even though I don't want my ex back sometimes I still get upset since our relationship had potential. Basically he left when the honeymoon phase wore off saying he doesn't wanna commit, he has a history of doing this so I know he's going to do this to his new girl. I have a guy friend who's been really supportive and patient with me and checks up on me everyday. I'm pretty sure I'm developing feelings for him because I think about him a lot and he's super super sweet and nice and takes care of himself. I genuinely like him and want to potentially have a relationship with him. I don't know if I should wait to tell him how I feel since I have this baggage. He told me he's always here for me and he cant wait until I'm better again. I feel like he would really help me get over the hurt my ex has caused. I really don't know if he likes me back but I have a feeling he does since he's always checking up on me, talking to me for hours about random things and stuff like that. Tl;dr - I'm hurt by my ex, I like someone else but don't know if I should act on it now or wait. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks ! Link to comment
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