SunshineBeauty Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Me and my boyfriend have both had horrible past relationships . We've been together for 10 months now and we love each other very much . Sometimes our past relationships cause us to have trust issues but we don't admit that that's a problem . We say we trust one another but we don't act like it all the time . What's a relationship without trust ? I believe we're both afraid of getting hurt again. He gets very jealous when another guy likes or comments on something that I post whether it's a status or a picture . That usually ends up being an argument majority of the time and I hate it . Social media does get in the way at times but we have it for entertainment. I don't want our past relationships to ruin anything so I'm not sure what to do . What can we do to communicate better before we let the past ruin what we have ? Link to comment
Painter1888 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Been there it will get better trust me I was abused by. A boy in 5 the grade dint even tell him he got the feeling that something was wrong and know that he knows it's more easier Link to comment
SunshineBeauty Posted April 6, 2017 Author Share Posted April 6, 2017 Yeah it's a tough situation but I guess if we really love each other we wouldn't let the past get in between us . Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Being controlling, possessive, jealous as well as blaming it on previous partners/relationships are all choices. Link to comment
annonymous1 Posted April 20, 2017 Share Posted April 20, 2017 Talk to him about it. Tell him how much he means to you and how someone's comments and likes won't change your feelings towards him! I could be difficult for him but he needs to trust you. In the long run it can be a problem if he has issues over such small things. If he doesn't want you to be in contact with your ex, it's understandable. But if his possessiveness is not justified, then you need to seriously think about this whole thing. Relationships cannot last without trust. Link to comment
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