Chevy03 Posted April 6, 2017 Share Posted April 6, 2017 Hi, I am 27 and hes 36. Basically He was one of those who fell asleep on the couch and stayed there some times when we first moved in together. We used to have a very intimate and fulfilling sex life. However it seems as time has gone on he sleeps I'd say 5 nights out of 7 in the basement which is a man cave. He says it's bc I get up way earlier than him, or the beds not comfortable etc. I have spoken to him about it I'd say 1.5 yrs ago. And he attempted to come to bed more. And then I just got so busy with life that I seriously didn't care or notice he wasn't in bed more often. Now it's been bothering me more. I've mentioned it and he tried to come up to bed and ends up getting annoyed with being uncomfortable and goes back to the couch. My main concern is that I don't want to live like this anymore. And I'm actually quite farther over it than I thought. It's one of those things where you feel like your voice was on repeat and nothing was done about it so it's like I'm almost desensitized. However lately I've been lonely and wondering why and what's going on. Possibly because it was my bday and I've been contemplatingif I want to sign up for such an emotionless and distant life with a so called companion. As a side note, when we vacation he's in the bed which is peculiar to me because theres a couch in the hotel rooms ... Please aNY similar stories or insight is appreciated. Am I over reacting? Link to comment
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