Lila45 Posted April 4, 2017 Share Posted April 4, 2017 Hi! I feel really bad. I suspected that my boyfriend was cheating and I went by his job on a day he said he was taking the day off to go with his Friends that were coming from out of town to visit another friend that has cancer and is in a hospice. I waited in the coffee shop for about an hour and my boyfriend came back from lunch with a woman. They stood in front of the building for a couple minutes than hugged and kissed in the mouth goodbye. i was in disbelief and that night when he came over and was asleep I looked in his wallet to see if he had anything written, like a name or address for the woman. He had an address with no name on it. The next day in the afternoon he called and asked if I had looked into his wallet. I told him the truth, that I did. I could not talk much when he called because I had a friend next to me and I was embarrassed to say anything in front of her. He told that was nothing I could say that would justify my actions. Next day we spoke and I told apologized. He said I accept your apologies and told me not to think of it anymore. I also told him that I saw him kissing and hugging this woman. He told me that we were just friends and that he he takes a woman out on a date, he does not have to tell me. He told me the woman is Helen and her mother lives on the building next door and he knows her from a job he did at her mother's house. I was upset, since he always addressed me as a girlfriend and introduced me to people as his girlfriend. I broke up with him and asked for my belongings back. He was going on vacation the following week, so he told me when he got back we would take care of my belongings. He texted me when he got to Colorado to let me know his flight landed safely. he told me he would let me know when he landed safely in LA when he was back. He never did and is now acting like I do not exist. I sent a text saying hello and hope all is well. he texted back two days later saying, Thanks, I hope all is well also. I called to try making arrangements to get my apartment keys that he has with him and he called a day later and got my voice mail. We missed each other's calls a few times and on the last call I left a message and he has not returned my calls. I see he is often on whatsapp, but never messages back. He is the one that wanted to stay friends and saying he wants me to always be part of his life and now is acting like I am dead. We last spoken on Feb/24th before his trip. Exchange those few words messages and nothing since. Should I call and make arrangements to get my keys and a document I left at his place, or should I forget about both and block him from my life forever? Thanks to anyone whom can give a few words of advice. Link to comment
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