Annie1989 Posted April 4, 2017 Share Posted April 4, 2017 If any of you read my first post (although without the paragraphs I im understand it is difficult to read, you will know that I was cheated on by my long term partner whom I moved halfway across the country for after a month of being together. (he was a serial cheater throughout our relationship and I was dumb enough to give him several chances because he went to a Buddhist monastary said he changed...read the whole post for all the dirty details.) When I found out about the cheating he said it was a stupid mistake and he only loves me and wanted to make it work. I moved out anyway and he claimed it was for the best, and I've been staying at my friends house for a month (even though I paid my half for the apartment we shared because I'm not that kind of person.) Fast forward to this past Sunday when I'm out with my friends for brunch. I saw him out with the girl he cheated on me with. I had a panic attack but then I went up to them and calmly said "are you Amanda? I was the girlfriend you knew about. I just wanted to see it for myself" and calmly walked away. There was no scene, I didn't say anything mean, in fact I was pretty damn proud of myself. 24 hours later I get a text from my ex saying "why?" I didn't respond. Today I got a text from him saying "don't ever approach me in public like that again. Be an adult or I'll get a restraining order." He was the one that broke my heart for 7 years, and it wasn't like I contacted him after I said that or did anything crazy. In fact, I'm pretty sure considering after everything I've been handling myself really well. I don't want to respond to him but I don't want him to think he won. He previously begged for me take him back, said I was the love of his life, etc. Why is he threatening me when I did nothing wrong? When I moved out he made assumptions that I was ruining my life by making rash decisions and I signed a lease and in need to be an adult. Isn't the adult thing not cheating on your girlfriend after a month of living together? Any advice would help. I know it's sick and twisted and not beneficial for my healing but I'm having a hard time blocking his number. Getting any text from him is like a drug, and I love not responding to him. Link to comment
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