xoMariah Posted March 31, 2017 Share Posted March 31, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months, going on 4. I have social anxiety and he has schizophrenia which means to me he gets quite upset quickly. Also a few weeks ago he broke up with me because his lawyer told him that he couldn't be in a relationship if he wanted his daughter back & something about his divorce becoming finalise and I was heartbroken and he pushed everyone away including family that same day. I didn't hear from him until the next morning as he text me "I don't wanna break up, I wanna be with you" of course I took him back but I'm afraid he might end up doing it again. I'm lost on what to do. I'm 19, and he's 25 so I'm new to this. I can't turn to any of my friends and family because they do not understand what's going on. Lately when he knows something is wrong with me he gets upset, and he tells me to my face "You know if you don't tell me what's going, on that's going to lead to me becoming distant bc you won't open up." Now I battle with anxiety on a daily basis so to me this is basically him saying I'm going to end things with you if you don't open up, but there are some things I can't bring myself to talk about. I notice he's becoming distant because he would usually call me and text me all the time, but now it's hardly nothing unless I communicate first. He has a 4 year old daughter and I have NO experience being a stepmom, so when he gets joint custody of her, I want to be like a second mom to her. I'm just lost on this whole situation before things take a worse.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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