youdontknowme Posted March 30, 2017 Share Posted March 30, 2017 Heya, I've been in a LDR with my girlfriend for a month now and it's been great. I love her and I'm sure she feels the same about me too but things are getting difficult. She is going through stuff at home, has some mental health problems and now it seems the smallest things trigger her. I find it difficult to know how to support her currently as her phone is broken meaning we can't call and her computer has no microphone. The only way I can try and talk to calm her down is through text but this is really hard. I would love some suggestions on how to comfort her though this. Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted March 30, 2017 Share Posted March 30, 2017 It sounds like she's still catfishing you if she continues to claim her devices don't work. It could be a 900lb guy for all you know. Why are you getting hooked on this rather than pursuing real live girls you could meet in person? Are you home-bound or have social anxiety? I'm quite anxious she could be a catfish. I can't really see any motive for this but I've never heard her voice and only seen pictures of her. I asked to voice call once beforeb ut she says she has social anxiety so I'm unsure what to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reinventmyself Posted March 30, 2017 Share Posted March 30, 2017 Heya, I've been in a LDR with my girlfriend for a month now and it's been great. Have you actually met her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaggerJim Posted March 30, 2017 Share Posted March 30, 2017 I don't think you need to "comfort her" I think you need to dig around and see who your talking too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrAK Posted March 30, 2017 Share Posted March 30, 2017 Mail her a microphone. They're cheap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abitbroken Posted March 31, 2017 Share Posted March 31, 2017 She can call from her parents' phone. She doesn't want to. No one lives these days without some sort of way to call them. Unless she has no job Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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