GuitarGuyUSA Posted March 29, 2017 Share Posted March 29, 2017 I have been married 27 years to my wife and we've raised 7 kids together. Our marriage has been good with highs and lows and lots of mistakes. I love my wife very much. She's a very good person. But the relationship has been a struggle for the both of us. In the past and other relationships, I had felt infatuated heat and this relationship came about more out of convenience and not wanting to have to start again. In the last year I have met the woman who has re framed my thinking about love. The connection that I have with her is far beyond physical. There have been many coincidences, that seem to point to her. I have never cried as comfortably with anyone as I have with her. I have never shared things as deeply as I do with her. As I research on google this begins to take on a new agey aspect of an energy connection like a twin flame. While I think a lot of this is hokey their is no denying the palpability of whats happening. She has also been married for over twenty years. and has a young daughter and though we have both been working to keep our heads on straight, its beginning to become harder and harder not to acknowledge the elephant in the room. I am struggling about the future and the way forward. My rational mind says that I should let this go and maintain my marriage with my wife but in doing so she would be with someone who stays with her out of convenience rather than passion or love. I also may not be able to feel this way again with another human being in my life. I don't want to get to be 80 years old and have this huge regret that I did not pursue this woman of my dreams. What to do? Link to comment
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