JaggerJim Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 Exactly... if I was a man and my girlfriend never offered to pay the bill not even once... not even the "reaching the wallet as if she wants to pay" (lol) she wouldn't be my girlfriend... she'd be out the door quickly because this is not the equal and fair relationship I dream of. Also I'd see it as a redflag if she didn't even "reached her wallet" at first date, even if I had all the intention of paying her. Small details like this tell a lot about how one acts in relationships. I couldn't even imagine never picking the bill with a man... I would feel so guilty too, even if the guy had much more money than I do. But I guess we all have different values and expectations. I don't think this guy even wants to go that far. All he wants is for her to help him out at this stage. Even for me, it's not the fact of her not reaching for her wallet everytime we go out, it's the fact that when it falls on hard-times and your trying to put a plan in place, that she would have to reach for her wallet, for awhile. Not forever. Link to comment
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