Lauren1987 Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 So I've been dating this guy 4 months. Things started pretty quickly because we had been on a few dates a few years ago. I think he may have a porn addiction because his house is messy when I am there. He has many toys and goes to sex conventions ect. He takes pictures with many of the porn stars. This doesn't bother me. He is caring, grounded, and family oriented. I feel confused and more anxious then I have with other guys. We live an hour apart and I do not drive so he does do a good amount of travel. I have met him in the city here and there to make relationship easier because of the distance. I am stressing because on one of our second dates one of his best friends needed a place for her friend to stay. My boyfriend was on a date with me and was on the phone with her for 40 minutes while I was shopping. I have met some of his friends but not her. So I was not happy because I had not seen my boyfriend in a week and thought it was disrespectful to be on the phone so long while I was there. Then another incident I was going to have a date with him but he ended up hanging out with his cousin whom I've met. But she didn't have a ride so he canceled his date with me to drive her home. I know he does a lot in terms of travel and works long hours. But I have been starting fights with him saying nasty things and I know I have hurt him. I think he is on the fence on whether to move on or not. (though he claims he wants to marry me ect.) I don't know how to repair what has been done.I feel more emotionally attached then I have. But I also feel a distance and I am not sure if it can be repaired. I have tried talking to him about not understanding his friends because I have not met all of them. Also, being insecure because this is a long distance relationship I don't think he understands. Link to comment
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