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what to expect is/are opinion of men about getting someone pregnant or chance to

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boltnrun Grand Master

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@ a bit broken.. what it has got to do with me.. guess, the fact i am in love with someone who functionates best it seems by being alone a lot

 

So you expect no help and no presence at all from this man?

 

Are you able to provide the basics for a baby on your own?

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Seraphim Grand Master

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Just remember having a child should be the most ultimate act of love and self-sacrifice there is. It means things are no longer about you . Raising children takes almost 100% of who you are. You are laying down your life for someone else. And once you are a mother you are a mother not for 18 years but until they put you in a pine box .

 

So if this is a romantic notion for you put that away . Raising children is not romantic .

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What chronical illness is it at your case?

 

Try look after a baby and young child while chronically ill. Not easy AT ALL. Do you consider it fair to that child ?

 

I look after my developmentally disabled child (19) while I am chronically ill. Not the easiest thing in the world .

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What to expect is a man`s view to and or advantage/disadvantage to giving risk to pregnancy ?

 

Depends on the situation... if the pregnancy is wished by both or not, if there's a solid relationship or not, if both will do everything they can to take care of the baby or not, etc.

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It`s by the way not like others who have low paid jobs are having much different situation.

 

And how can you be sure this high paid guy wants to fully commit to you for the at least 18 years you have to raise your child? I'm very confused. Is this a relationship? A long term one? Why is this in the "infidelity" area of the forum? Does he want to have a child with you? Have you talk it through with him? Did he know about your contraceptive issues? How old are you both?

 

This thread lacks more background information.

 

OP, you talk in riddles all the time and never answer any questions. Ever. You talk around everything, don't clarify, don't explain. Nothing. If you want genuine help, then please don't talk in riddles and at least try to answer questions decently. This thread will be a total waste of time and going nowhere.

 

I think there's a language barrier here.

 

I know google translator often gives very awful translations, but if it's so hard for you to express this situation, would it be good if you typed everything in your original language to google translator and then type the answer in English here?

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Il est difficile de comprendre les messages. Et oui. Google translate peut donner des réponses très comiques

I think there's a language barrier here. I know google translator often gives very awful translations, but if it's so hard for you to express this situation, would it be good if you typed everything in your original language to google translator and then type the answer in English here?
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@ a bit broken.. what it has got to do with me.. guess, the fact i am in love with someone who functionates best it seems by being alone a lot

 

You should want more. You should want a man who wants to be with you, who is delighted to be your husband. You are adjusting to what the man wants. He wants to have sex with you with no commitment. He wants sex and then leave. You just want a baby. If a man doesn't want to partner with you, how does that affect the child? It is difficult for a child to understand why their father does not want them. It is heartbreaking. Again, if you are sick, how can you raise a child.

 

If you want to be pregnant so badly, why not be a surrogate mother and give the baby to their parents. You won't be able to if you are chronically ill. Or volunteer at the hospital or orphanage holding and hugging babies whose parents have abandoned them?

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Together we are 72

 

And how can you be sure this high paid guy wants to fully commit to you for the at least 18 years you have to raise your child? I'm very confused. Is this a relationship? A long term one? Why is this in the "infidelity" area of the forum? Does he want to have a child with you? Have you talk it through with him? Did he know about your contraceptive issues? How old are you both?

 

This thread lacks more background information.

 

 

 

I think there's a language barrier here.

 

I know google translator often gives very awful translations, but if it's so hard for you to express this situation, would it be good if you typed everything in your original language to google translator and then type the answer in English here?

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She doubled their ages together

 

I see... she never answers directly to anything, so she found the a way to answer in riddle mode. Trolling alert lol

 

It'd be much more entertaining if it was like one of those math riddles or an equation to solve where x is her age and y is this guy's age lol

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I see... she never answers directly to anything, so she found the a way to answer in riddle mode. Trolling alert lol

 

It'd be much more entertaining if it was like one of those math riddles or an equation to solve where x is her age and y is this guy's age lol

 

She's not a troll she's been here for years . I truly think it's just a linguistic difference .

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She's not a troll she's been here for years . I truly think it's just a linguistic difference .

 

my respect to S, and her faith in people.

 

to the best of my knowledge though, there are no grammatical rules in any european language that render answering such a question by adding the ages together reasonable.

 

i agree with annia though. at least make it fun for us if you're going to troll.

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