sarahhh456 Posted March 27, 2017 Share Posted March 27, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months, we've known each other for over a year. He is 22 and has a lot of friends and likes to go out and drink and have a good time, which I have no problem with cause I like to go out too. Anyways, I am currently living in 2 places. About 3 weeks ago, I moved to an apartment a little over an hour away from the city we live in because I am taking a program at a school in the suburbs. I have class Monday through Thursday so Thursdays after class, I go home and spend Thursday evening through Sunday at home, then Sunday evening go back to the apartment. I told my boyfriend I was going to be doing this for about 2 years because that's how long the program is before we started dating and he said he was okay with it and we'd spend time together when I came home and if there was ever a weekend I couldn't come home, he'd come out by me. So the first weekend I came home, everything was fine. The next weekend, him and I were going to go to the movies Thursday night. I thought it was just gonna be the 2 of us, but he said his friend and his girlfriend were going to the same movie and wanted to meet me, so I said sure. We met up with them and they ended up sitting by us in the theater. No big deal. Friday we went out to a bar because I had some friends home for spring break that I wanted him to meet. He came and brought a few friends with him. Again, no big deal. Saturday I didn't get to see him because he pulled a late shift at work and Sunday we went to a hockey game together then I went back to my apartment. This past week, I had a really tough week. School got really hard even though it's only the 2nd week in and I started thinking about if I really made the right choice about what I wanna do in life career wise. I am bad at school and was overthinking about not making it through this program. Alongside that, I just had a bad week in general. I was expecting to go home Thursday and get to spend some time with my boyfriend because I really miss him when I'm away. He spent every night that week with his friends so I was hoping I'd get at least one night to hang out just me and him. Thursday he was having some of his friends and their girlfriends over to his house, so if I didn't go to his house, I wouldn't have seen him, so I went. Friday night, I went out with some of my friends while he was at work. I asked him if he was going to come meet up with us after work and he said no cause he was tired. Then I found out he was with his friends again. On Thursday night, he said we'd do something together Saturday after he got off work. Saturday night comes along and I ask him what we're gonna do and he tells me he's gonna go play pool with some of his friends and that he'd take me to dinner Sunday (today) before I left to go back to my apartment. So today before he picked me up for dinner, he went with his friends to Best Buy. Dropped them off and came to get me and we go out to dinner today and after dinner, my boyfriend asks if I wanna go and meet his friend real quick who I haven't met yet who keeps asking about me, then we could go. I say okay, we go to this kids house, I end up sitting there with my boyfriend and 3 of his friends while they play the new video games they bought earlier. We ended up staying there until I had to go home and get my stuff ready to go. He was gonna drop me off at home and then go back to his friends house to play video games and drink. So, he drives me home and on the drive home I asked him why we couldn't just hang out me and him at least once this weekend and we ended up getting into a fight because of the ratio of how many times the two of us hang out separately compared to it being us two and his friends. We've hung out more times with his friends than we have just me and him and it's starting to upset me. I don't want to feel like I'm dating him and his friends or like I can't see him unless his friends are there, and I told him that. It's not that I don't want to meet his friends, cause I do. I love meeting them. It's not that I never want to hang out with them. It's just that I never get to see my boyfriend without them being there. What I wanna know is if I'm in the wrong for feeling like this? Cause in the car, we were fighting and then we just stopped talking. When we got to my house, he said "have a safe trip" and I said "thanks" and got out and that was about it. We haven't spoken to each other and I'm afraid he's not gonna talk this out with me. Normally when we get into little tiny fights and they're my fault, I admit it was my fault, say sorry, and we move past it. Is this one my fault? I just wanna spend one night with just him, considering now I have limited time to see him when I come home. Also, what should I do if he doesn't talk to me? I doubt he is gonna say anything to me tonight and I'm scared he's not gonna talk this out with me. Am I wrong? What should I do? Link to comment
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