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Ex won't stop talking about me


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So I finally decided I was done begging for my ex to love me and take me back and so he said he was dating this girl he knows I absolutely hate and she came up to me and told me they were too but everyone else says it's to hurt me and I honestly don't care that they are together or not but he's done this before to try to hurt me and all he does is talk about me and all his "girlfriend" does is talk about me. Everyday they just have something to say about me and talk about me constantly. We have mutual friends so I know all the time he acts like he hates me when I know deep down it's love and that's why he's always constantly talking about me but this girl thinks she's winning and they are both doing it to hurt me but he needs to stop talking about me. I want him to know I don't care that he's with her or talking about me.

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How can I act to show him I honestly don't give a anymore

 

You stop worrying about the fact that they are supposedly talking about you. When you really don't care, it will show.

 

So you tell your mutual friends that you don't care what he is up to and what they are talking about and you don't want to hear any more about them. The chances are these mutual friends are telling him the same thing about you because as far as they are concerned you do talk about him with them ... even if it is just about them talking about you!!! Your friends don't care about the details, they just enjoy being caught in the middle. Take yourself out of it and the gossiping will soon stop.

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Perhaps try to think of some sincere, off-hand remarks you can make to your mutual friends to illustrate how you feel.

 

Such as: "Oh, I'm not interested in that. How was work/school/class, today?" "Let's talk about something appealing - did I tell you (whatever you are up to)?" "That's of no concern to me. What's new with you?"

 

Just continue to be polite and consistently deflect. Good luck.

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he's done this before to try to hurt me and all he does is talk about me and all his "girlfriend" does is talk about me.

 

We have mutual friends so I know all the time he acts like he hates me when I know deep down it's love and that's why he's always constantly talking about me

 

- Not sure how old you all are? BUT, this is NOT 'Love'... sorry.

 

it's immature!.. All head games.

 

Love is not a Game... simple!

 

He is NOT worth this crap you're being dealt with. Tell your friends you don't care about what he is saying and leave it alone.

 

Only way to stop all of this is walk... forever,, away from him.

 

Get your own life going again and don't play the dang head games.

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How can I act to show him I honestly don't give a anymore

 

It seems like you care A LOT Maybe spend some time digging for your true feelings because you seem to be spending a lot of time trying to figure out what/who they talk about and telling yourself he's only with her to make you jealous and that deep down he loves you. What if he really does like this new girl? You should just leave both of them alone and not talk to other people about them.

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