TheRemedy99 Posted March 24, 2017 Share Posted March 24, 2017 I came out of a short term relationship with a girl at the end of January, we had only been together for 3 months but I really liked her and I was devastated when she chose to be with someone else instead. I gave myself about a month to try and get over it, then got back into online dating at the end of February. Over the past 3-4 weeks I have been speaking to lots of different girls who all seem nice, however there is one in particular that I have been speaking to every day and we have been on 4 dates in the last 2 weeks. The problem is, as much as I like this girl - I don't have a strong attraction to her. She is really nice and we get along well but I feel like I have a bit of a "take it or leave it" attitude when it comes to seeing her. She on the other hand seems to be very keen on seeing me every few days and keeps asking questions about whether she is the kind of girl I would like to "be with" etc. I don't want to lead this new girl on and hurt her because she is really nice, but I feel like she is definitely more interested in me than I am in her at the moment. Also, I am still speaking to a few other girls on dating apps and I think that maybe I should see a few others before getting too involved with anyone? I still think about my ex a lot, as I never had any kind of closure with her when we broke up. Even though it was only a short-term relationship I still feel like I haven't 100% gotten over it. I'm not sure if my lack of attraction to this new girl I am dating is due to her not being right for me, or if it's something to do with my unresolved feelings for my ex? Link to comment
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