VegaVixen Posted March 24, 2017 Share Posted March 24, 2017 Well, my boyfriend is 21, I'm 18. (Still young) , We have a fair commitment with each other. It's been 2 years now, our anniversary was yeaterday. and, me and him are seperate. I moved about 85 miles away from him. Before I did we had a great sex life. He wouldn't even touch porn. But now that I've moved, I've been concerned. Me and him would see each other once or twice a month, he would drive down to come get me to stay with him for a week, or longer. It's amazing we would have great sex! Week staying there and we would hit it maybe 5 times without him touching porn. but as far as masterbarion goes.. I want to know if I should be worried or not. He's lied to me before, and I still trust him, but part of me doesn't which caused me to snoop through his phone. (I know, bad move, it was my fault not his). But I went on his downloads and saw Tumblr. I clicked on it and saw that it said it was deleted but could re download them so I did. I saw three pics of the same girl flaunting herself. Lots of hentai. And beasitality. And furry type porn, and some very explitic content. I got this Intense jealousy and insecurity. I got so mad I didn't think so much of it. Hew told me he would download what he likes. Now, my bf is a horrible communicator. He doesn't wanna deal with me half the time. He's told me multiple times he's watched porn only when I'm away. That he didn't give a care less about the girls. That it has nothing to do with me. That he just misses me. Hes also deleted them so he wouldn't wanna hurt me. He had.no idea the downloads would still be on his browser, but he deleted them without me asking. But then when I'm there with him he's not even Interested in it but me in person. He's told me he would look at those pics and look at my pics?? Is that something I should be thankful for? He's said that once he's about to cum, he goes straight to my pics and goes off on that. Idk if that's something that's true, but he swears it is. Now as far as those downloads go, he's told me he's downloaded them and it goes straight to his gallery, and he would delete them after he's done. He's told me as well that he just liked what he sees when it comes to the female figure. Now to keep in mind, this man has made me accept so much about him that not most girls can accept, and there's always more and more to discover, and I think it's pushing it and driving me insane. And.I think that's why I'm here. I've gotten over him watching porn, but when it comes to downloads idk. It's different to me. He's very confusing because his libido isn't so high. He thinks that sex isn't always about commitment and that it's not always on his mind. He would tell me how he would mastebate three times in a week or two. And would go without it for another two weeks. (That's when im.Not there with him) I love this man to death, we have talked about moving in together soon, all that good stuff. Should I be worried when he's doing that kind of stuff when I'm away? Or is this completely normal. Link to comment
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