hevtheanon Posted March 21, 2017 Share Posted March 21, 2017 Me and my partner have been together for 3 years. He is a little older than me, but I prefer that. He says he is madly in love with me, and I can tell and I do think I can trust him.. I say think as I am a very insecure person. Anyway, we recently went on holiday, it was great. He told me he'd never been so settled, so happy, and he also told his parents this and has done plenty of times. On the Tuesday of our holiday, I went through his pics while he was in the bathroom, I came across a photo of a very pretty, slim girl, I obviously went mad, but it turned out his brother sent him it about something (he showed me the conversation) and he was unaware that whatsapp automatically saves photos to your phone. Anyway, today, I bring it up by saying "its not nice for me to find that on your phone please delete it" and he says "don't go through my phone then" and I said "its not nice" so he said that I should then speak to his brother about not sending stuff like that!? He clearly understood what I was saying.. I wanted him to delete the photo due to my insecurities about myself and the fact that its disrespectful to our relationship to have a photo of another girl like that on his phone! I would love to bring it up again and say have you deleted it, but I don't want to cause any more stress on myself as he's impossible to talk to. He's very hard faced that way and he knows how to get to me so I am almost protecting myself. The point of this post is that is it "normal" for a man that already has an attractive loyal (Etc) girlfriend, to find other women attractive and not want to act up on it? I don't know if this is some sort of mind game either if he likes to get to me, press my buttons... do all partners do that occasionally? Link to comment
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