Knight2001 Posted March 20, 2017 Share Posted March 20, 2017 hi, i've posted on here before about my toxic relationship. im in the middle of a break up, well i dont know if i am or not to be honest. me and my partner work 350 miles apart. we see each other every other weekend we have seperate houses and after 8 yrs together she is now getting a divorce from her estranged (10 yrs) husband. i used to think the world of her and i never believed that could change. however since christmas we have never stopped arguing (we have always argued a lot) i think in the past 2 months i've seen her about 3 times. this has been going on for weeks now. she said she wanted a break (unkown duration) from me. i said i did not want a break. however when she insisted i told her she had to get all her stuff away from my house as i dont believe in breaks i think we should have been able to work things through together. the arguments are about more or less the same thing all the time - she says i have my priorities all wrong as i help my 80yr old mother (garden, give her a lift to church) and i also have 2 daughters who come visit me/us on a saturday evening and she has hinted they should not come so we can spend time together. to be honest i think it's her priorities that are wrong because she only seems concerned about herself WRT our relationship, not thinking about what i want. now, i dont know if it's because i have put my foot down she is saying i am cruel by doing this and not contacting her. am i being cruel ? she wanted the break, she has got what she wanted. i am sick to the back teeth of arguing with her. it's just one thing after another. but am i really being cruel ? it's so sad because i did lover her so much. Link to comment
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