Sadandhurt1 Posted March 19, 2017 Share Posted March 19, 2017 Was not feeling good at all today about the BU and started talking to a friend about it. Made the comment that maybe if my ex wasn't going away for school, we could have made it work and that timing sucks. However my friend made a very honest point: If he wanted to make it work, he could have. But he obviously did not want to. That burned. A lot, only because I know it's the truth. My ex and I were going to go long distance in a few months because of him going to grad school. At that time he didn't know what school he'd be accepted in yet but we knew it would be between 2-4 hours away. Not far at all... if he wanted to, we would still be together. We did have a talk previously, about the options and what we could do and our options were 1) to try, regardless of the distance 2) to do the long distance and then for me to follow him after I finish my grad school 3) for him to not even go (stupid one) 4) for us to part ways and to see what would happen after the 5 years he would be gone. He himself said he wanted to try. But at the end he gave up on us anyway. Option 2 was so ideal. I would have picked up my things after I finished school and follow him. I really don't know what did it for him. I never cheated, was faithful the whole time. I tried my hardest to be a good girlfriend, really did... It's so frustrating and now what sucks is knowing that reality and having to heal from it. But like I said from my previous post, time is a beautiful thing. Link to comment
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