Tyler2626 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 So me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months. The first month was really fun, happy, and exciting. The first problem in our relationship came around the second month, when she snuck out at night with her friend to smoke weed with guys 1 year older than her. It made me mad because she tried to hide it from me and promised she'd do it with me first but lied. Then complete hell came the third month. Let me just start by saying that I'm not controlling and I'm a very out going guy. Anyways the third month came and things started to get really bad because she became really weird and wanted me to block all these girls that I use to like that I'm friends with on my phone, and wanted me to not talk to them. Then she started telling me I can't go to parties without her because she thinks I'd do something behind her back and she feels 'hurt'. So anyways March Break comes and I get invited to lots of parties and since I wanna be "loyal" I don't go to any of them, but then yesterday she got invited to her first party and I figured she wouldnt go. Anyways that night I took her out to the movies and payed for her, but the whole time in the theatre she was texting one of her girl friends hidding her phone from me and was texting her about how she's gonna go to this party with her, but the whole time she was telling me about how she doesn't wanna go because she wants to be loyal. Then the second she gets home she goes to this party with her friend. During the party she didn't care about what she did, but after the party she freaked out and begged me not to leave her. These aren't the only problems I find with her. I find that she doesn't know right from wrong and constantly does bad things that hurt our relationship thinking there good. She rarely goes on dates unless I get mad about it. I've also caught her a lot texting guys that crush on her and I block them on her phone. (Is that wrong to do?) Our relationship honestly feels like I'm controlling everything I might as well be dating a brick wall. I really don't think she's ready for a serious relationship. I need advice on what to do I really like her, and I cried all night because of what she did and how she treats me. I talked to her about it but I heard the same thing she says everytime she messes up "I promise on my moms life this time will be different I'm done hurting u" (she's done lots of stuff that I haven't mentioned) Link to comment
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