Alana4297 Posted March 17, 2017 Share Posted March 17, 2017 Hi, So I moved to University to live in the dorms about 3 weeks ago. There is a guy living right next to me, and I was attracted to him. He was really quiet and chill but something drew me to him. A week ago we were all drinking and somehow we ended up in his room and we hooked up. We didn't have sex, I told him I wanted to get to know him more. It was a bad idea to hookup with him, because everyone knew on the floor and it was very public and embaressing. Also I was doubting that he even liked me because I was the one to initiate it all. But we talked a little afterwards and walked up to class together. He is SO hard to read though, its really difficult. He messaged me a couple days after when I was out of the city. Then yesterday we were all drinking in his room, and he had a friend over who wasn't in the dorms. I was feeling really uncomfortable because I was the only girl and I didn't know what the guys were like so I drank WAY too much. I was done by 8:00pm... and I was sloshing my drink everywhere, cut my toe and didn't realise.. etc. His friend (lets call him Jacob) was also VERY drunk and vomited in the bathroom. But we ended up being alone in my room and we hooked up. It didn't even click to me at the time what was happening or that what I was doing was so wrong. We both cared about my neighbor but were too intoxicated to realise. I'm not trying to use alcohol to excuse my actions, I am taking all the responsibility. I have made some really stupid decisions while I'm drunk, and I have to face the consequences. I tried to talk to my neighbor today about it, to apologize and to explain that I was sorry if I hurt him. But it was so hard to talk to him... he basically walked away from him. i have to keep in mind though that even before we hooked up or I hooked up with Jacob he was quite difficult to talk to. The problem is I have no idea how he feels...if he even cares, if he's upset. He doesn't vocalise anything and won't reply to my messages. What do you think of this sitation? I know its wrong, and I didn't come on here to be shamed, but its a little more tricky than that. Because after I hooked up with my neighbor I felt like he was completely disinterested... he didn't reply to my messages, he made no effort or anything. Maybe that doesn't make it right, but it's not like we were a thing or he was even talking to me. I'm really confused. I made some really bad choices Link to comment
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