Kyla Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 First off I'd like to say I'm definitely crazy and I overthink a lot and have major trust issues carried over from fairly recent past relationships in which I have been cheated on. Despite this though, I do treat my boyfriend like gold and I sense he doesn't realize I have trust issues. We are both students in similar fields and we spend almost all of our time together. He seems very committed when we are together, I am close with all of his family and friends and even though we have been dating for less than a year, I have been close friends with him for about 3 years. Over the past few weeks my cheating anxieties have escalated because I have realized how protective he is over his phone. He has told me his passcode, never keeps his phone on silent and sometimes leaves his phone behind with me when he goes to the bathroom. I have never snooped, but I noticed that when he receives messages he doesn't always check them immediately but replies immediately when I stand up to do something elsewhere. It also appears as if he slightly tilts his phone away from me when checking his messages. He has always been close to his phone even long before we were dating, but something must have triggered my noticing of it lately. One time he smiled while looking at his phone and I asked him to show me what he was smiling at because he usually shows me funny memes he finds on the internet. But this time it seemed as if he panicked, he did something on his phone (deleting a message maybe) and showed me a funny picture which clearly wasn't it. I told him I knew that wasn't what he smiled at and he said "fine" and went onto 9gag to show me what he "really" smiled at. I asked why he was hiding it if it was just 9gag and he said he didn't want me to know that he was procrastinating by 9gagging. I don't believe him. As I speak now we are both studying for tests apart from each other. I know for a fact that he is writing tomorrow because our test time are on the same roster document. We are writing tomorrow but we are texting and he mentioned he just showered and that he focused on washing his private areas because he had exercised today. I am sitting here wondering why he would be paying such attention to his personal hygiene if he is just at home studying. I am seriously bothered by this and it is keeping me out of studies. What should I do? I don't think confrontation is a good idea since this is all the evidence I have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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