jonnyboy12 Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 Hi, just curious to some opinions on this. Girlfriend was on her snapchat the other day and took a snapchat to send to her friend (girl). of course i saw her bestfriends and saw a couple of guys. I knew who they were so knew they were just friends to her, although I don't really like one of them but never made a deal out of it. So when she was on her snapchat feed, i noticed the conversation with the top bestfriend on snapchat (boy i dont particularly like) wasnt there? So I said wheres the snapchats with him gone? She stuttered a bit and kind of scrolled down as if to look for it, then proceeded to say "i must have accidentally deleted it"..... Now I don't think shes cheating or flirting or whatever....but what do other people think? Its a bit weird to delete one thread of chat out of all the snapchats on her feed (she gets loads from random people she ignores but doesnt delete) Odd one, what do we think? Should I be worried or should I let it go this once Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gary Snyder Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 Well, if they are just meeting as a group they can't cheat, nothing is going to happen. There is another problem. You have trust issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonnyboy12 Posted March 16, 2017 Author Share Posted March 16, 2017 Dont think you've got the point, theres no meeting....its snapchat, a social media platform Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ArtyO Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 Dont think you've got the point, theres no meeting....its snapchat, a social media platform I would just let this go. She knows now you have been paying attention, and that should be enough to keep her honest if something off-hand is going on. Perhaps this "friend" sent her something inappropriate which she didn't want or ask for, and instead of any unnecessary drama, she decided just to delete it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 How are things going in real-life? It seems you are so over-invested in her social media activities that you haven't got your eye on the ball. Maybe she resents you looking through her phone or monitoring her social media or breathing down her back in general? Stop doing this and learn to be confident and self assured. That means not prying and basically not caring who her friends are. Go to the gym, work out, get in shape, do sports. Get to the barber for an updated haircut, shave/facial hair grooming. Get some new clothes. Become interesting. Have a life outside of this including your own friends, interests, activities, etc. Girls go for the interesting confident guys who have something better to talk about other than "who are those guys on your phone?".Now I don't think shes cheating or flirting or whatever....but what do other people think? Its a bit weird to delete one thread of chat out of all the snapchats on her feed (she gets loads from random people she ignores but doesnt delete) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gary Snyder Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 Dont think you've got the point, theres no meeting....its snapchat, a social media platform - then it's even less of a problem (It's no problem). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc Blaze Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 why are you looking at her phone? is she ignoring , did something happen before, if she always on her phone, does she hide her phone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pretzel Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 Maybe she deleted it bc she didn't want you to see that she was talking to the guy so much so that you don't feel insecure ab out it. Seems like its had the opposite effect! I have male best friends who i talk to all the time, and i wouldn't want my bf to know just how much we talk - bc it would probably raise eyebrows. But id delete chats if i thought a bf would feel insecure over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
indea08 Posted March 16, 2017 Share Posted March 16, 2017 Idk.....snapchats delete the content anyways so what's the point in deleting it?? Her "fumbling" response is what makes me kinda think "hmm." Just keep paying attention (overal, not just snapchat). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonnyboy12 Posted March 17, 2017 Author Share Posted March 17, 2017 Thanks for all the comments. When we were first dating, around the 1st month in I caught her speaking to a lot of other lads, but I let it slip due to it being early on, since then there's never been any reason for me not to trust her. I'll let it go this time and carry on. Our relationship is actually very good right now so I can't see why she would want to ruin it. Maybe she just didn't want to cause an argument if i had seen she was talking to him, not sure. I just don't like him because I've caught him being a bit too touchy feely with her in a club before......so even though my girl says he is a friend to her he might have different intentions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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