xholic Posted March 12, 2017 Share Posted March 12, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years. However, just recently, he’s become (close?) friends with another girl, who I don’t mind him being friends with, but her behavior bothers me a little. First day of university, he wanted me to go buy him liquor. I wanted him to come with me, but he said he didn’t have time. I said sure. Later, I find out he spent 2 hours with this other girl, and admittedly, I was a little upset. When they were hanging out, he told me she asked him if I was the jealous type, and he said no. I was a little confused about this but I let it slide. But overtime, more things started happening like: Fast forward a few weeks, the same girl asks if she could use him to make another guy she liked jealous (by introducing my boyfriend to him). This bothered me a little, again, so i talked to him about it and he told me it wasn’t like that. Just recently, me and my boyfriend were talking, and she came up from behind him and put her arm around him and started talking to him. He tried to finish his sentence with me but she kept on talking over him. I go on my phone, and after, she hands me her phone and asked me to take a picture of them together and I said yeah.. sure I guess. This also bothered me a little, and I talked to him about it. I said I felt a little disrespected, and my boyfriend agreed it was rude She’s done other petty things, like send me photos of them together during lecture (we aren’t close, I don’t talk to her online at all). She used to tag other guys (with a girlfriend) in memes like “You owe me a mcdonalds date I trust my boyfriend and I don’t think he could do anything to break that trust. I haven’t been upset or mad at him, I’m just bothered by her behavior. I’m totally okay with them being friends. I could try and not let it bother me, but I feel like she’s overstepping the boundaries. I’m sorry it’s so long, but any insight/advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks so much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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