Walk away

[paigeh101]

I've been dating this guy for a year now and he basically is obsessed with his ex-girlfriend and also likes to hit me he won't put in a relationship on Facebook and I could go on and on of all of the toxic negative things that go along with this man but I can't seem to walk away I block his number and I unblock his number I go back to visit him which he lives three hours away from me and it's really sad that I don't believe I deserve better and I don't think I can get a better does anybody have any advice on how to block someone's number and walk away and be done with it and just keep reminding yourself that it's over for a reason

[Wiseman2]

Never stay in an abusive situation.You can always do better than that.

likes to hit me

[JaggerJim]

Why do I feel, I've read this thread before?!

[Matt3939]

Cause Rambo has a six sense for deja vu. Rambo had been known by his closest friends to read palms. After knowing this I've done my best to get rid of mine from manual stimulaton. Though just like another failure in my life I've been unable to do so.

[ParisPaulette]

I stopped reading at he hit me, really the rest of it is just dross. You can't fix him, but you can fix you. Get into therapy to find out why you're trying to fix a situation most of us would run from, in fact I have run from someone a lot like him come to think of it.

 

Stop picking up a scorpion then complaining it's stinging you every time and you're starting to get really sick from the venom. You know what this guy is, it's no mystery. And no, there is no voodoo or magic set of words to turn him into what you want him to be. Were that the case I'd be an extremely wealthy and powerful woman.

 

All I can tell you is to run and don't look back. Get into therapy and figure it out with professional help. We will all tell you the same thing, this is a cage of your own making, no one else's. And it's one you have the key to - it's called, "I am done with this trap and will grit my teeth and get through the withdrawal, like every other addict out there, because if I don't this drug is going to kill me."

 

And yeah, it really is that simple. If I had to guess I'd say you enjoy the drama and highs and lows, and you have nothing else in your life, but him. So you don't feel you can do better, but believe me you can do better all by yourself than this type of situation.

[Nina95]

I stopped reading at he hit me

 

This. There is no excuse for or doubt about abuse and what the only course of action should be. The first time is his fault, the second time is yours because you stayed and chose to remain a victim. Leave and never come back, report him too if you can.

[Dahl]

he basically is obsessed with his ex-girlfriend and also likes to hit me

 

I'm alarmed that you pose your concerns in this order. Please leave this abusive lout. You don't have to tolerate any of this and you have not only the right but the obligation to protect yourself.

 

Be well.