oneup Posted March 8, 2017 Posted March 8, 2017 This girl and I are work together for the past year together. We have been hanging out after work lately. She is very reserved and proper and really beautiful. Everyone at work thinks she is nice but not open. She does not talk about her personal life to anyone except me. she has finally opened up to me. Her and her husband are separating. She doesn't want anyone to know. People at work think we are best friends but its not like that. We like the same things but we are very different. I feel like there is something between us. maybe I am crazy. Anyway I resigned from my position at work and she says she is going to miss me and she was hoping I wouldn't leave. I think she is so pretty. I never really felt this attracted to a woman. I had a friend in college who would kiss me at parties but I never thought much of it. this girl is different. Her eyes are mesmerizing. Sometimes I can't look at her in the eyes too long because I might start blushing. I love her laugh. I am married too and I would never leave my husband. he is amazing I just can't stop thinking that I want to be her friend but maybe more intimate like kissing. How do I go about testing out the waters? How do I know if she is attracted? when we hang out outside work its not easy conversation because she is so reserved. its like she wants to tell me but then pulls back. She is also very conservative but she mentions things from her past that are not so conservative. what should I do?
indea08 Posted March 8, 2017 Posted March 8, 2017 Start with finding out what boundaries your husband is comfortable with and go from there.
Wiseman2 Posted March 8, 2017 Posted March 8, 2017 Is she bisexual?How do I go about testing out the waters? She is also very conservative but she mentions things from her past that are not so conservative.
oneup Posted March 8, 2017 Author Posted March 8, 2017 I have no idea. I'm afraid to ask her while we still work together
Rising100 Posted March 8, 2017 Posted March 8, 2017 You are married and are thinking about this... cheating or how to cheat.
Dahl Posted March 8, 2017 Posted March 8, 2017 You are married and are thinking about this... cheating or how to cheat. This is what I was struggling to say, as well. On a far, far less significant note, OP, from what you've shared, she doesn't seem to be sexually or romantically interested in you. I'm in no way disparaging the affection and fondness you believe you share.
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