JaggerJim Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 Doesn't sound like he's remotely into you. Why do you stay? Link to comment
Dahl Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 Also, OP, I saw that someone already recommended it to you, and I wanted to chime in that The Five Love Languages is absolutely a must-read. I just looked online for you on the off chance that you are interested and it is listed for incredibly reasonable prices. Link to comment
Rainisron Posted March 7, 2017 Author Share Posted March 7, 2017 Didn't see this when I last posted to you. My impression is that he's definitely not 'in love' with you. He's treating you well, you note - is his lack of interest / not being at your level of commitment a deal breaker for you? Do you have any other complaints about the relationship other than his not being in love with you, at this point? Has he been in other long term relationships, do you know? I think about 2 but I'm not entirely sure, he also has never spoke about his exs much which I don't really mind but I'd like to know small details out of curiosity and he's kinda quiet about it? So that's another thing I guess, I just feel like I don't know some parts of him fully yet Link to comment
Dahl Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 I think about 2 but I'm not entirely sure, he also has never spoke about his exs much which I don't really mind but I'd like to know small details out of curiosity and he's kinda quiet about it? So that's another thing I guess, I just feel like I don't know some parts of him fully yet That's reasonable. I think it's a dead smart tact for you to take to let him open up to you at his pace. Good on you! Perhaps this is the crux of your issue - maybe he's just naturally reticent? Link to comment
Rainisron Posted March 7, 2017 Author Share Posted March 7, 2017 That's reasonable. I think it's a dead smart tact for you to take to let him open up to you at his pace. Good on you! Perhaps this is the crux of your issue - maybe he's just naturally reticent? Possibly, there has been multiple occasions where he has explained most of his feelings are internal, I just wish he would open to me u know? ): I want to help him with everything and anything so he doesn't have to be so alone Link to comment
Rainisron Posted March 7, 2017 Author Share Posted March 7, 2017 That's reasonable. I think it's a dead smart tact for you to take to let him open up to you at his pace. Good on you! Perhaps this is the crux of your issue - maybe he's just naturally reticent? But I also want to give him space and not be so needy so I don't know which is right? Link to comment
Dahl Posted March 7, 2017 Share Posted March 7, 2017 But I also want to give him space and not be so needy so I don't know which is right? I don't think that you are going to go wrong by giving him space and time to open up to you at his comfort. I think it will strengthen his respect for your approach and deepen his appreciation for your relationship. I'm also going to guess that his past, in terms of other romantic relationships, doesn't have undue bearing on him or the two of you. He seems like a laid-back chap. I don't know that you need to worry that he's repressing anything. I wager he's moved on and is sincerely enjoying his developing bond with you. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 8, 2017 Share Posted March 8, 2017 Don't smother, it's creepy. It's mommying a guy and a huge turn off. Don't revolve your life around him. Nothing says run! to a guy more than this type of thinking 6767517]I want to help him with everything and anything so he doesn't have to be so alone Link to comment
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