Three Month After BU -Rebound Relationship?

[luisannalui]

I have a friend (woman) we know each other for years as we used to work together. Well, She been flirting with me lately and want us to go out together. I always come up with an excuse, idk why. Although I do have the desire to go out and have fun, I dont feel the "push" yet. She knows about my ex and shes going through the same process- so she knows she'll be a rebound. But Im not a fan of "rebound relationships" but do feel that I need some type of entertainment to get my ex out my mind. Is my first time staying single for so long as I want to improve myself. But at the same time I'm starting to miss the company of a woman.

 

 

Another thing is that I want to concentrate on paying my loans (Last time I went clubbing was in December- when I was in pain chasing my ex) I did go out to the movies, cafe, local places. But this girl wants to go out have some drinks . I don't mind going out for a few drinks, but she mentioned that she only like going VIP at clubs. I don't know if she was j/k. What I do know is that this time, I'm not afraid to tell a woman that my goals are far away from overspending (ex. buying bottles)

 

I don't want a rebound to intervene in my goals. I don't want to jeopardize my progress.

 

I'm not overthinking this. I just want you guys to share your experience and also help me in my way of seeing this.

 

Any advice?

[Betterwithout]

It's important to be on the same page. You said she is going through the same breakup with her ex, so if she is looking for something casual, at least the feeling is mutual.

Breaking up is tough to get over and many do through a rebound. It helped me tbh