lilaclilly Posted March 5, 2017 Posted March 5, 2017 I'm currently in a new relationship. My old relationship ended about a year ago. My new boyfriend doesn't really seem accepting to the fact that I've already had sex in my past relationship. When we argue he says things about my past. I've had a son, I got pregnant at 17 but I'm 19 now. He would say things like "you're used , I don't want you" or hell say things like I'm "young and dumb" for getting pregnant so early. Everything he says goes back to my past. This was way before he even came around. I feel like he doesn't accept me for me really. He says all kind of cruel things when he gets mad but then later he'll apologize. I'm tired of being called used for having sex in my past relationship. I mean sex is normal so why is he making it such a big deal? He doesn't want to see me honestly I know this sounds weird but we've been talking since my last relationship ended (which I said was a year ago" and he refuses to even hang out with me. One minute it's " I love you " the next minute it's " I don't want you, you're used" you already had sex. He says stuff like I wish I was a virgin. He's still a virgin but he throws that up in my face and makes me feel like nothing I know it's normal to have sex but it's just the way he talks to me like I'm not nothing & I continuously go back because my love for him is too strong. I don't know what to do. I don't know if he really loves me or am I just here just to be here. I'm being loyal to someone who doesn't even try or want to really see me.
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