Sasha4444 Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Hello again, I am a 25 year old female, my boyfriend is 38. We have been together 9 months and we live together, he has 3 daughters, one of them we don't see often the other two come on weekends. I work full time and so does he. In the beginning he couldn't get enough of me, telling me I'm beautiful and wonderful and everything. Now he tells me he loves me and treats me well but I tell him he's handsome and how much I care for him at least once a day, he barely ever tells me anymore. We went from having sex 4-5 times a week to maybe once a month if I am lucky. I've bought lingerie, tried all sorts of different things to get him interested again, I even asked him what his biggest turn on is, he replied with an "I don't know I don't have time to think about this right now". I'm just lost, did I do something wrong? He tells me he loves me every day and every other part of our relationship is great, we barely argue and when we do we talk it out. I honestly feel like I've failed or I'm just not attractive anymore, I hide it well in front of him because I don't want him to feel like he has to have sex with me, I don't want it to be an obligation to shut me up, I would feel like he's doing it out of pity and that won't make me feel sexy. I feel unattractive and unwanted physically. I don't know what to do anymore, it's literally tearing me apart. I'm at the point where I just masterbate when I get a chance and I'm ready to just give up on trying to get him interested. It's been 4-6 months and we have maybe had sex 4 times... Advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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