Hergs143 Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Blurb: I met this guy "Jake" online. We clicked immediately. We met in person three weeks ago and he is everything I could ask for in a man. Handsome, great job, great body and he treats me so incredibly well. He is also extremely old school romantic which I love. We have been intimate and it was amazing. He is a total giver. He's perfect...except his voice. He has a very "gay" sounding voice. I know this sounds incredibly shallow and I hate myself for thinking this way but deep down I think we're all a little shallow. I can't yet get passed his voice. Is this something that i may need to end the relationship for if I can't get over it? If so, how do I even start? I hate this because he is such a great, caring guy. I've tried getting used to it but it's hard. I've never brought it up to him and I'm not sure if it's a good idea to bring it up. My one friend said that many men with "gay" voices end up being gay. I don't know the accuracy of that however, it makes me worried that If I one day married this guy and had children, that 25 years down the road he would come out! I think I'm overreacting a bit. But I'm nervous about introducing him to family and friends because of his voice! What do do? Sincerely, Shallow Gal Link to comment
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