Limbo

[Havok20]

It has been a week now since my ex broke up with me and kicked me out of the house. She says she needs time and space to think and still hasnt given me an answer as to what is going on. I love this woman with my whole heart. Most of the issues were on me with neglect or appreciation.

 

This has been the longest week of my life. We were together 5 years to just have her do this hurts to the core. I have since been going to a psychologist to get my past issues fixed and also relationship problems that were addressed, for me, but also hoping she sees me trying my hardest to make her coming back worth it.

 

Weirdly, the two night after the breakup i came back over and stayed those two nughts and she said she felt safe and comfortable in my arms as she fell asleep on my chest both nights.

 

I am so scared to lose this woman that has brought so much joy and happiness into my life. I keep asking her if she has come to a conclusion she just keeps saying she needs space to think.

 

This breaks my heart.

[angrythoughts]

Sorry. You're gonna have to wait and see what happens for now. Don't try to convince her to be with you and also do not beg! It'll chase her away.

[1a1a]

Limbo is a terrible place to be and I feel for you. Focus on you while you are being patient. And if nothing changes you always have the b plan, unilaterally deciding to turn away. Hopefully you have a resolution soon

[holistic17]

Sorry to hear this. You must give her time and space. It's only been a week and these issues you have are serious enough that you are seeing a professional. All this needs time to breathe and work itself out. You have to let go of the need to control this situation. If you push her, she'll push you. If you give her respect and time, she will give you the same. It will equally balance out. Use this space to work on yourself. Wouldn't you prefer to be the best person you could possibly be? Not for her but also for yourself. It is hard waiting but how you choose to use this time is crucial.

[Wiseman2]

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