Amber123 Posted March 5, 2017 Share Posted March 5, 2017 Hi, I tend to have trust issues to begin with as I've been hurt before and lied to in my past relationships. I finally met a guy that was amazing to me and I felt I could spend the rest of my life with. We've been together for almost a year and a half. He goes on business trips for work about 5 times a year which is very difficult for me. He goes to Vegas for a work conference every year which always lands around his birthday so I went with him this year. Not once did he mention that he was going to meet women clients for drinks in Vegas nor any other business trip. Yesterday I read a text from Vegas 3 months ago of a girl who is a client of his saying bag she is outside of the hotel and is ready for that drink and he's saying okay coming out of the conference. He tells me that he had to come outside of the conference because she didn't have a pass and that they were at the slot machines talking business having a drink. When I asked him why he didn't disclose this information to me when he saw me a few hours later that night,he said he didn't feel like he had to tell me as he has meetings with girls and guys on work trips all the time. He's always said that its 90% dudes in his industry and has never disclosed him going out for meeting with clients from the opposite sex before and I was devastated to find out in the way that I did. I believe him when he says nothing happened sexually and that it's all for work but I feel like I can't fully trust him now and is wondering if he's lying with omission in other ways. Am I over reacting? Link to comment
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