Bunnywonder Posted March 4, 2017 Share Posted March 4, 2017 My bf and I have been together for 3.5 years off and on and living together for 2. We have been planning on moving out of the country together and working on selling his business and I’m conaolidating my personal belongings in efforts to leave as soon as possible. He has really bad seasonal depression, and this past week has been horrible. Well, he decided after a couple days of contemplating us that he wants to take a break so he can figure things out with us. The only reason he has given me for anything is that he feels bad that I go out of my way to be with him and that I’m too good a person to be with him -_- So, we share a car, we live together, I’m very paycheck to paycheck and I’m trying to figure out how to move out. Come the afternoon of the same day he says “well, you don’t have to move out right away...” and said it more like he didnt want me too. He also seemed sad that I wanted to go out with friends that night to get out of the house (space right?) even though he was home, and was acting like he wanted me to spend time with him. I almost always make a point of being home when he is because we usually dont get to because he works so much. He doesnt mind if we sleep in the same room, and he has been way more attentive and our conversations have been better, and he even initiates sex that is more intimate than has been in a year over the last few days. So he is acting like he doesn’t want me to move out, but says he wants to take a break. Mixed signals. So how do I give him his space while we live together, until I figure out how to move out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted March 4, 2017 Share Posted March 4, 2017 Ask him point blank if you are still a couple living together, having sex, etc. or if he wants you to move out and is giving you time to find a place.living together for 2. we share a car, we live together, I’m very paycheck to paycheck and I’m trying to figure out how to move out. he says “well, you don’t have to move out right away...” He doesnt mind if we sleep in the same room and he even initiates sex. So how do I give him his space while we live together, until I figure out how to move out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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