EnterTheVoid Posted March 3, 2017 Share Posted March 3, 2017 Today my 3 and half years of relationship ended. A little bit of backstory, i met this girl in college, motivated and ambitious and inspired me to become who i am today Few years into the relationship she starts to let go of herself. She loses her ambition, becomes unemployed. She says that she hates jobs and wants to become an entrepreneur, i try to support her every way i can, one year passes and no action is taken. Meanwhile i do my fulltime job, freelance in the night to make money Her bank account drops literally to zero. She's no longer able to meet me because she can't afford transport. She still refuses to get a job because she hates them. She promises to make money with freelancing, no action is taken, a dime isn't made I accept it as a part of the relationship and try to ignore it. But i get frustrated because we are no longer able to meet. Months pass by and i start complaining. We finally have a conversation. She says that we are not compatible. And we break up. That was it. I still love this girl but I'm mad at her for not making an effort to be financially responsible. Because things started falling apart only after it. For years i tried helping her, waited for her to change, but it never came. But after all this her reason for breaking up is that we are not compatible. I'm sad but I'm going to move on. Would love to hear your thoughts. Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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