Ex GF Mixed Signals

[Jorge1234]

Ex and me broke up after 3 years together. This is our 2nd break up and she seems to not want to get back together. Went no contact for a month till she reached out to be friends. Began to hang out and get comfortable and she has began to get angry with me for no reason. I don't mind being her friend just don't want to feel like I'm annoying her by being the only one trying in our friendship. Should I just move on? I really love her and would do everything for her, why isn't it enough?

[Matt3939]

I'm not a fan of being a friend with an ex. If she's mad at whatever why should you care. Let her deal with it. You pick your friends. Good luck

[angrythoughts]

You're trying to be more than friends most likely and aren't getting what you want. It's too soon to be friends. You still have feelings for her so it won't work. Just stop. She shouldn't have even reached out to be friends with you. Don't fall for the games and ignore her... or be cordial at least.

[Knight2001]

i agree be cordial to her, but dont think about a relationship with her again. you've already broke up twice. fastforward..........do you want to be like this fo the rest of your life? find someone and have a stable relationship. it'll be a lot easier to find someone new if your not friends with your ex.

good luck maan.

[Wiseman2]

What were the breakups about and why is she still arguing and angry?

 

Sorry to hear this but no no no, the friendzone sucks and isn't a platform to get her back.

This is our 2nd break up. I don't mind being her friend just don't want to feel like I'm annoying her by being the only one trying in our friendship.

[Betterwithout]

Deep down inside do you want to be more than friends? (hoping she'll have a change of heart) If so a platonic friendship may not work for you two.

Might be easier on your heart (and hers) to go NC again. Work on healing from her and work on yourself for a bit.

There are a lot of fish in the sea. Don't leave your hook in the water waiting for her. She may never bite.

[No1]

You are NOT her friend. Imagine if she met a guy and told you all about how wonderful he was, would you be jealous? Of course you would. That's not a 'friend'. You want her back and thinking this friendship is a path to get her back... Its not.

 

Quit trying to decode everything she says or does. Her actions will tell you far more than what words say. But here is your problem. You want her back so bad that you are ignoring the obvious signs. She doesn't want to be in a relationship with you.

 

Stop being 'friends' and just let her go. By hanging out with her, all you are doing is making it easier for her to disconnect romantically from you.