Mattias67 Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 This girl sits a few feet directly to my right. I've seen her glance at me from the corner of her eye (peripheral vision) multiple times. Ive looked at her while she was doing this twice and saw her quickly look away both times. I talked to her one time to help her with her work (we're in college) and the entire conversation she was looking from my eyes to the floor every half second. This last time we were sitting in class before it started and I noticed that she wasn't doing anything. I looked over at her and her eyes were peaking at the corner of her eye straight at me, and when I looked at her, she immediately turned her eyes another direction. Today, I talked to her about it after class as we were walking away. When I first said her name and she looked at me she smiled and I asked her about what I wrote in the second paragraph and she said "before class?" I said yes and she said something like "I kind of just look around when I space out". She said all of this while maintaining eye contact and smiling at me, I maintained eye contact but I didnt smile because I was so nervous. I just responded with "ok" and then when the convo ended (we were both walking to our cars) she started walking away a little faster and kind of seemed in a rush get out of there.
J Miracle Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Way to put her on the spot and make her uncomfortable. Why would you do this, and what did you expect to accomplish? Not sure if you have any romantic interest in this girl or not, but if you so, you kind of blew it for obvious reasons.
Wiseman2 Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Ask her out rather than tell her she has a crush on you based on eye contact. How awkward. Just go for coffee, soda, pizza, whatever after class. Stop trying to red 'the signs'. It will land you in the creepzone peering over all the time to see if they are looking at you. Today, I talked to her about it after class as we were walking away.and she said something like "I kind of just look around when I space out".
katrina1980 Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 You confronted a girl about possibly looking at you? Why would you do this? What would you expect her to say? All you did was create a very awkward moment and if I was her I would be very creeped out.
Dahl Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 I maintained eye contact I didnt smile I just responded with "ok" She answered your question. Now you're branding her a liar because her answer does not match your perception and assumption? Why are you being so dramatic and hostile about this?! It's like she accidentally made eye contact with you.. In. Prison. What gives?
JaggerJim Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Way to go! This will ramp up her staring. Good work!
abitbroken Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 If a guy said that to me, I would think he was a little bit of a creep. Honestly, you are not the only person or thing on that side of the room. if she is looking forward and you can see her pupil in the corner of her eye YOU are paying too much attention to her and are analyzing her too much. I sometimes look to the right and left while my mind wanders and it doesn't mean i am looking at anyone in particular purposefully. You have probably now either made her self conscious or she thinks you are odd. Its a new one to me that someone must have a crush on you just because they happen to see you in their field of view.
Wiseman2 Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 yeah, and not in a good way.This will ramp up her staring. ]
Matt3939 Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 She might have strabismus. Or might be classically trained in orchestra. Are you waving a stick around to a beat? At least you didn't get the same response as I got last night. I eat out almost daily. I'm almost done with my meal. This lady comes over pulls out the chair across from me. She sais something though I didn't catch it. She gets settled looks up. Then she said "oh god no" got up and ran away haha.
Wiseman2 Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 Maybe they had pineapple pizza on the menu? Then she said "oh god no" got up and ran away haha.
JaggerJim Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 yeah, and not in a good way. ] ] Before you know it, it's gonna end up like this!!!!!!!!! Awkward.
Dahl Posted March 2, 2017 Posted March 2, 2017 ] Before you know it, it's gonna end up like this!!!!!!!!! Awkward. Now *that's* a look.
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