Should i end it

[Kimberley]

My partner moved away from his family to be with me, we have lived together now for about 6months and omg he is driving me crazy i dont feel like its working. He hasnt got a job so i pay for everything which is annoying. I have kids from a previous relationship he is great with them but i cant shift feelings of missing my ex. I find him very ignorant and when i try talk to him he ignores me then snaps at me to shut up or turns things round on me which he is very good at. Recently i have found when i tell the children no he questions me or tells them yes which is making things difficult. When im out he will be asking where i am or if im going out he wants to know who im going with im worried he is trying to control me

[Dahl]

My partner moved away from his family to be with me, we have lived together now for about 6months and omg he is driving me crazy i dont feel like its working. He hasnt got a job so i pay for everything which is annoying. I have kids from a previous relationship he is great with them but i cant shift feelings of missing my ex. I find him very ignorant and when i try talk to him he ignores me then snaps at me to shut up or turns things round on me which he is very good at. Recently i have found when i tell the children no he questions me or tells them yes which is making things difficult. When im out he will be asking where i am or if im going out he wants to know who im going with im worried he is trying to control me

 

Based on your account, you sound quite fed up. Is there a reason not to end it? He sounds maddening.

[Wiseman2]

How did you meet? How long did you date prior to his moving in? How well did you know each other? Is this creep watching your kids while you work? Red flag.

 

Give him 30 days notice to get out. This guy shouldn't be around your kids and he's a mooch and sounds abusive..

My partner moved away from his family to be with me, we have lived together now for about 6months. He hasnt got a job so i pay for everything. him he ignores me then snaps at me to shut up. when i tell the children no he questions me or tells them yes which is making things difficult.

[Gary Snyder]

Narcissists/control freaks are not good catches.... particularly a bum. They think the world revolves around them. They need therapy but are like stubborn mules and most will never go... at least until you leave them and you hit rock-bottom. Sorry to give you the bad news.

[agent1607307371]

It does sound like you are ready for it to be over.

 

 

You don't need any more reason than not being happy with someone to end a relationship. It sounds like he moved in with you to have you supporting him, so if he cries about having no money, or not having anywhere to go - tough. He's had enough out of you.

[Kimberley]

I met him becuase he lived near me knew him from when we was younger he moved away but we got back in touch dated for a year.my children are both at school so ok there.he doesnt seem to understand that i am struggling just me working when i brought it up that he needs a job he said he knew what i was trying to do he can see through me? All i said is that he needs to find a job!

[agent1607307371]

All i said is that he needs to find a job!

 

Yes, but it means you still think he should be contributing to the household and he has no interest in doing that. He came to leech off you, not help you.

[Wiseman2]

Yes, he can see through you. You rightfully want him to get a job and he wants to freeload...

 

Can he get a job as a rocket scientist?

when i brought it up that he needs a job he said he knew what i was trying to do he can see through me?

[katrina1980]

I met him becuase he lived near me knew him from when we was younger he moved away but we got back in touch dated for a year.my children are both at school so ok there.he doesnt seem to understand that i am struggling just me working when i brought it up that he needs a job he said he knew what i was trying to do he can see through me? All i said is that he needs to find a job!

 

You dated for a year but didn't know how he was? Telling you to shut up and the rest of it? What did he pull a bait and switch after he moved in?

 

None of that matters though does it you are still in love with your ex. That alone is enough of a reason to end it. He can move back home with his parents. Don't feel guilty!

[catfeeder]

Should i end it

 

Yes. And why would you move some guy in with your kids?