Hollsmaur Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 So me and my boyfriend have been together 10 months and throughout that amount of time I've never been worried about our relationship until now. basically I have been offered more hours in my current job and so that means we don't see each over as much as we are both busy, but last week he told me that a new girl had started at his workplace and that they get on well like they've known each over for ages, and they've been texting on and off for a week. Now I'm not sure if I'm just paranoid or not, but my mind keeps on telling me that they are gonna gain feelings for each over in the long run and leave me hurt, or that she's going to try something with him or vise versa. It's happened to me before, where I'm convinced someone loves me and then they drop me like I never meant anything to them and I guess that's why I think the way I do. What doesn't help is that I have no clue what she's like or what they are saying to each over at work when I'm not around. I have read the text messages and it's just general chitchat but they keep asking each over what shift they are in like they want to see each over, and he missed work for two days and broke his phone so he hadn't seen her, but when his phone was fixed a message appeared from her saying "oi where are you?" And I hate her for it just because he's my boyfriend and she knows he is but is still messaging him asking where he is and what shift he's doing like she's really bothered, but then again that could just be me being paranoid again? Anyway my boyfriend said he wasn't going to message her again which he didn't when I seen him, but for all I know he could still be texting her, getting closer to her, all while I'm not around. I just don't know what to think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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