Love Advice

[redcow]

Hi All,

 

Would like some advice.

 

Been seeing this very attractive young lady. She is married....

 

It has cooled off as she has said she must give her husband one last chance...

 

I text, she replies, but after a few text she says she will not text back again. so I leave it about a week and when I text she replies and the same happens again.

 

But every time I ask her if she misses me or us. She always replies but saying " I'm not answering that question" Now what I would like to know is do she miss me/us or not. What do you all think...

 

Your advice would be appreciated

[Wiseman2]

It sounds like she's tired of the affair and wants to work on her marriage. Leave her alone.

 

How do you know each other? Do you work together?

She is married.... It has cooled off as she has said she must give her husband one last chance...

I text, she replies, but after a few text she says she will not text back again. She always replies but saying " I'm not answering that question" Now what I would like to know is do she miss me/us or not.

[Gary Snyder]

Don't ever play with a married woman, they are not usually ready for a new man yet. There is a high chance of rejection, which you have already experienced, twice now. I would find a single woman who's heart is open and ready for a new love.

[redcow]

No I helped her dad with some paper work. and it went from there, she came onto me. she was full on like 50 texta day ringing me every hour, she said what she had with me was something she had never experience before. We did not have sex but it got close...

[redcow]

But does she miss me. As she will not say yes or no...

[Wiseman2]

Unfortunately you sound obsessed with a married woman who wanted nothing more than a flirtation. No sex, affair or relationship.

But does she miss me

[redcow]

We done every thomh else bare full sex.

[Twinflamer]

But does she miss me. As she will not say yes or no...

 

I will have to go with: no, she does not miss you. If she missed you and you really meant anything to her she would have decided NOT to try to work things out with her husband. She would have just left him.

 

But even then, this is a marriage she is in; therefore, if she decided to leave him she would still need plenty of time alone; to process her feelings/emotions of marital separation. Because if she separated then immediately jumped into a relationship with you, chances are, the relationship would fail because she wouldn't be ready. You would be a rebound and those have a tendency to end abruptly and painfully.

 

You shouldn't be worrying whether she misses you or not. She's married & she's trying to work on her marriage, why don't you let her do just that? Go no contact, work on yourself, & get on some dating apps to meet SINGLE young women. Plenty of single ladies out there.

[Dahl]

I also think that your answer is no.

 

This is a legitimate question; I'm not being sarcastic - but why are you even asking her these things?

 

Respect her decision to repair her marriage.

[catfeeder]

But does she miss me. As she will not say yes or no...

 

Sound like she doesn't appreciate being manipulated. If she says 'no,' she hurts your feelings and if she says 'yes,' she's setting herself up.

 

She knows how to reach you if she wants to, so why not just leave her alone?

[Capricorn3]

She is married....

 

It has cooled off as she has said she must give her husband one last chance...

 

What do you all think...Your advice would be appreciated

My advice is: Stop messing around with married women. STOP texting her. Back off and stay off. It seems she's come to her senses and wants to work on her marriage. Time for you to come to your senses too and stop being involved. You have no place there.

 

Try respecting her decision and maybe have some self-respect too. Find someone single and available.

[Knight2001]

 

i agree with gary, move on maan.

good luck and try to get over this married woman.