I screwed this up...(Part 2)

[Not Thinking]

If you guys are interested here is the beginning of the story.

 

I had hoped that I would get some sort of positive sign but nothing as happened. I think it is time to go full NC, I really need to heal myself before anything else. She keeps "liking" stuff on my social media page and stays very engaged with my best friends, I am thinking about "un-following" her. The last time I texted her she was quick to respond and said she would help me with a project. It was not an engaging conversation just the basic "ok, got it". She keeps writing things on my friend's pages usually right after I do but will not talk to me or even about me. I can't figure out if she is staying involved just see a response from me or what?

[Wiseman2]

Sorry to hear this but there's a cure for that. Delete, unfollow, unfriend and block her from all social media.

 

Go no contact. Why text her? If these breadcrumbs and friendzoning behaviors bother you, put an end to them.

She keeps "liking" stuff on my social media page and stays very engaged with my best friends. The last time I texted her she was quick to respond and said she would help me with a project.

[TiredOfDating]

If you guys are interested here is the beginning of the story.

 

I had hoped that I would get some sort of positive sign but nothing as happened. I think it is time to go full NC, I really need to heal myself before anything else. She keeps "liking" stuff on my social media page and stays very engaged with my best friends, I am thinking about "un-following" her. The last time I texted her she was quick to respond and said she would help me with a project. It was not an engaging conversation just the basic "ok, got it". She keeps writing things on my friend's pages usually right after I do but will not talk to me or even about me. I can't figure out if she is staying involved just see a response from me or what?

 

this is what was going on with my ex while we were in our "break" period. He was liking my posts and such, and it sent such a mixed message. like, if you can like what I'm up to, why do you choose not to be a part of it? so I ended up deleting him. I ALMOST added him back right before we met up for our dinner last month, and I'm glad I didn't.

[Knight2001]

hi,

i agree with wiseman2 - get rid of her. go NC it's the only way. then you can begin the healing process and move on !

good luck my friend.

[Not Thinking]

I think you guys are right, it is time for NC. I am not "following" her anymore so that will be the start. I still get aggravated when she engages my friends because these aren't just casual friends but my best friends, as in "close as family". I think some of this is like what Wiseman a saying about "Breadcrumbs" and this is it close to what my friend told me, "She is trying to keep one foot in the door". I almost feel like she is playing games with me.

[TiredOfDating]

I think you guys are right, it is time for NC. I am not "following" her anymore so that will be the start. I still get aggravated when she engages my friends because these aren't just casual friends but my best friends, as in "close as family". I think some of this is like what Wiseman a saying about "Breadcrumbs" and this is it close to what my friend told me, "She is trying to keep one foot in the door". I almost feel like she is playing games with me.

 

Just based on my own thoughts, most likely she's reaching out to CLOSE friends in hopes of getting info on how/what you are doing. I know for myself, I've been tempted to contact his closest work friend to see how he's doing, find out if he's seeing someone. but I don't.

[Not Thinking]

I initially thought that but when my named is even mentioned she avoids the topic. I wonder if she is just trying to get under my skin with the "Likes" and engaging my closets friends, to be honest it is working.